The other night, Kim Kardashian and I had a talk about how we wanted to be loved for exactly who we are and all that comes with our lifestyles. Kim obviously has a much more extreme lifestyle and ass (even compared to me), but I totally sympathized with her.
Isn't that what we all want? To be loved for exactly who we are? As far as humanly love goes, I think that a lot of us are loved for who we are, just maybe not in a romantic way. Although we yearn for that romantic, unconditional, fairytale love, sometimes we need to look right in front of us and see that we may have something very close to it.
Friends and family see you through a lot of crap and those that are still around should be counted as true gems. They must love you for who you are, and you the same for them.
So maybe we should stop searching so hard for our one true love or soul mate or partner for life. The presence of companionship is a longing, while the lack there of is an insecurity for everyone. But just take a look around! Do you have contacts in your phone? Friends on your Facebook? We have companions all around us. And the true friends are real, down for the count, not going to leave you when someone thinner or younger comes along. I believe that invested love in these relationships results in the most happiness.
As said best by Carrie Bradshaw: "Maybe our girlfriends are our soulmates and guys are just people to have fun with."
